Hi there! I just joined in this week! I'm a custodial step mom (have been for 12 years) to my husband's now 14 year old daughter. Together we have two boys ages 9 and 3. Step parenting is the hardest job on the planet and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I'm not sure what your questions might be or where your greatest struggles lie, but I am here for you if you want another stepmom to bounce things off of!