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Blogging Tips N tricks => The Good, Bad & The Ugly => Topic started by: ZenCricket on Feb 28, 2017 @ 10:03 AM
Hello all! Am in quite the pickle, I believe. Just going to spill this pickle jar and hope like hell someone out there can give me advice on how to clean this mess I've made for myself up.
For all of us that have wanted to get our numbers up rapidly to be able to start getting into in the upper influence bracket ... I have, against everything I have read, put quantity over quality. Somewhere along the line, I have submitted my info into what feels like the slim pit of Facebook's underbelly. I won't go into gory details, just trust me, it's disgusting! I am hitting the delete and block as fast as I was hitting the add friend button for awhile. The really creepy aspect of it, they are finding my personal account now. Finding ... not getting past finding and requesting. How they can find my personal account when it is supposed to be non-searchable is beyond me, but ... it's happening.
So, how do I fix the slim spill I've unplugged? I feel like I real dumb-o. The most disturbing aspect of all this is .. I frankly can not trace my steps back to what venue could be bringing this sort of traffic to my site. I know I'm not the only one out there that has had to deal with this sort of thing. If you've dealt with this, how did you cope, fix, remedy such problem? Any and all advice appreciate. Thank you so much for reading.
The Not-So-ZenCricket Right Now :-[
Is this going on on Facebook or your blog?
Changing gears and focusing on quality over quantity & continuing to block the un-wanteds would be a good plan for a while. Sometimes it can take a little bit to fall off their radar but keep blocking. I think once you put yourself out there you'll always get some followers you'd rather not have. It goes with the territory but control what you can.
It's a category tree effect, if you will. Starts out they see the blog, follow on Facebook, then the slim filters into my world through Facebook messenger. I thought I turned messenger off, but I have read or dreamt that you can't close messenger anymore. Is this correct? Did I dream this? Or did I actually read this? So many words in a days time, I can't keep up anymore ... lol.