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Title: In a bad situation and dont know what to do
Post by: Ineedadvice on Jan 04, 2016 @ 02:51 PM
Hi my name is Sherie. I live at home with my parents and 3 kids. I have been separated from my husband for 8 years now, and am currently unemployed. The situation at home is dire, and with having no money and no ideas I'm not sure what to do. My mom is terrible with me and the kids and my dad is always calling my 13 and 14 yr old girls bad names when he gets mad. I asked him to please stop and he acted like he wanted to fight after calling me the same names. I have no money and no where else to go. I desperately need some advice. We have lived here for about 9 years and I'm afraid the damage to my kids has already been done. I often cry alone in my room because I believe I have been a bad mom to stay here and let them continue to be subjected to such a harsh and cold environment. Please help   
Title: Re: In a bad situation and dont know what to do
Post by: Nia@RaiseALady on Jan 15, 2016 @ 11:21 AM
So sorry to hear about your situation, i know it can be tough. Maybe take a look at this website and see if you can find something on there that will help you and your kids go someplace else.
https://www.singlemotherhelp.org/
Title: Re: In a bad situation and dont know what to do
Post by: boymamma21115 on Jan 22, 2016 @ 09:37 PM
Hang in there mamma. You have to evaluate what is the best for you & your kids. A roof over their heads or ?  I assume you have tried looking for work etc. I know where we live, there is state assistance options.  Separated, why not divorce? Don't have to answer either.  Be the positive influence for your kids; teach them to be respectful, but they also will need to learn to ignore that bs and know that they aren't those negative names.  If its that bad honey, get out. Put your kids in a positive environment even if its at a shelter.  Lean on us here for support i'm sure you will get it, and there has to be help where you are.
Title: Re: In a bad situation and dont know what to do
Post by: theokayestmomblog on Feb 03, 2016 @ 09:55 AM
I am so sorry to read about your situation.  Praying for you and your kiddos.