Author Topic: Parenting Teens  (Read 187 times)

Offline daveharris850@

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Parenting Teens
« on: Nov 25, 2011 @ 01:31 PM »
Parenting Teens can be a very challenging task. Most of them are moody, and reach a point where they don't really want anything to do with the rest of the family. Successful parents of teens have found some great ways to stay in touch with their teens. The biggest factor in the success of raising a teen is spending time with them. I know it sounds like an impossible task when they don't really want to talk to you. The challenge is easier when parents find something that the teen is really interested in. If the teen participates and the parent shows sincere interest in the sport, hobby, or activity this will establish a little common ground. Above all else parents need to be sincere in their efforts to get close to their teen. Teens can smell a phoney a mile away, and will reject a half hearted attempt to gain their trust. The old cliche' about spending quality time with your children will not fly either. It is a major commitment to spend time with your children. When you feel like you would like to just sit down and rest for a minute after a long day at work, is probably going to be the best time to give to your teen. The effort is well worth the time, once your teen understand that you really want to be with them they will soon want to spend some time with you. What could be better to invest in than a relationship with your teen.
Dave Harris

Offline Direiter

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Re: Parenting Teens
« Reply #1 on: Dec 14, 2011 @ 05:58 AM »
I agree, Dave. Listening to them is key, talking, interest in their activities, keeping the lines of communication open without constant judgement...it works!

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Re: Parenting Teens
« Reply #2 on: Feb 09, 2012 @ 01:25 PM »
Sincere interest....that is key. Sometimes it is hard to get jazzed about what a teenager thinks is cool but like you said it is the only way to keep the lines of communication open during those tumultuous years.
Well stated, my friend!
Thanks,
Michelle

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Re: Parenting Teens
« Reply #3 on: Apr 09, 2012 @ 12:34 AM »
I agree in all of your points. Communication has always been key to get your feeling across and since teens are stubborn and like to keep to themselves, then this in needed more than ever. Interest in your teens life can also help them open up to you so keeping up to date with their daily lives will get you there. Teens are complicated beings and they will stretch your patience to breaking point. So an equal amount of affection and discipline is key to help you raise them to great kids.  ;D

 


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