Frequently Asked Questions

About Top Mommy Blogs

  1. What Is Top Mommy Blogs?
  2. How Does Site This Work?
  3. How Do My Visitors Vote For My Blog?
  4. How do I become a Featured Blog
  5. Do I have to pay to join?
  6. Does my blog have to be about kids and/or being a mom?
  7. What Can I do To Get More Votes?

Sign Up/Edit Account Questions

  1. I'm Being Told I already Have An Account Here And Can't Sign Up Again!
  2. What is a reciprocal link?
  3. I Am Getting An Error!
  4. I'm getting a 403 Forbidden Error!
  5. I Can't Remember My Username or Password!

Graphics & Banner Questions

  1. I am getting errors when I a try to add my banner
  2. I don't have a banner. Where can I get one?
  3. I changed my banner. Can you update it?
  4. Where can I get the voting Badge, links & banners?
  5. What is A Banner URL? How Do I Upload My Banner?

Your Listing, Site Resets, Site Updates & What To Expect 

  1. Site Terms & Listing Diagram
  2. I just signed up for the site, why doesn't my site appear?
  3. I know My Blog Has Sent Votes In. Why don't They show?
  4. My site was listed and now it is gone
  5. What happened to the facebook link?

Still have questions?

  1. How Do I contact you?

 

What Is Top Mommy Blogs?

Top Mommy Blogs is a free traffic exchange & ranked blog directory for mommy bloggers. Blogs are ranked by popularity (popularity = incoming unique hits).

How Does This Work?

Join us and create your blogs free listing Add the special member badge to your blog & start getting votes! Each unique click from your blog = 1 vote in Flaunt your voting link and improve your rank! Put your badge on your other websites, share with friends, tweet it, blog about it etc. The more you share, the better you do!:nohref shape=

To participate, you have to sign up for a free account here. After your account is set up you will be given a special voting badge that you will need to place on your blog. You will be given this badge after your successful sign up in your welcome email as well as being able to log into your account to get additional links and banners. 

Once you have placed the badge on your blog, you can begin referring your visitors which gains you votes. When a unique visitor* visits TopMommyBlog.Com after clicking on your special voting link, your listing will get a "vote" in. These votes from your blog are what help improve your blogs ranking and move you higher up on the list. People can also rate and comment on listings by clicking the Ratings or Comment images on your listing. You must keep this badge (or approved links found on the Links & Banners page of your account) on your blogs at all times in order to remain in the Top Mommy Blogs Directory.

* A unique visitor is determined by IP address in a 24 hour period. Votes coming in through proxy servers (or any method that attempts to hide info), outdated browsers or browsers that do not accept cookies are not counted.

How Do My Visitors Vote For My Blog

Visitors "vote" by clicking through from your blog to TMB (using your special voting link). Votes are essentially unique referrals. Visitors also can find your blog listing and rate and or leave a comment about your blog. Ratings and comments, however, do not effect your blogs rank.

How do I become a Featured Blog

Tell me I'm pretty? Kidding (but feel free to do that anyway). To qualify to be a featured blog on the home page, your site must be in the top 100. To qualify to be a featured shop on pages 2+, your blog needs to be in the top 500. On the individual category pages, the top 75 blogs from that category will qualify. Of the qualifying listings, the FB will be chosen randomly.

If your site is not in the top 500 you may want to consider where the ranking banner is located on your blog and/or adding some additional links found by logging into your account and choosing, "Get Links & Banners," in the drop down menu. If you have several pages of links, you may want to move it to the first page or placing the banner on your home page will increase your hits. 

Do I Have To Pay To Join?

Nope! This is a free list to join. You do however have to place a voting code or the voting banner on your site, however, to get your site on the list!

Does my blog have to be about kids and/or being a mom?

Absolutely not! Not all mommy bloggers blog about their kids! We created Top Mommy Blogs as a resource for moms who blog about any topic and as a sequel that is more general & a larger version of our sister site, TopBabyBlogs.Com. All we ask is that it is relatively family friendly of course. If you have a blog that doesn't quite fit any of the categories, place it in the Everything Else section. We will keep an eye on this section to determine what new categories we need or feel free to suggest one. And yes.. daddy bloggers are welcome too!

What Can I do To Get More Votes?

Here are some basic Do's and Dont's. Starting with the Do's...

  1. Do use a voting banner (text links work too but aren't as attractive)
  2. Do use your special voting code whenever you refer to TopMommyBlogs.Com on your blog
  3. Do place your voting banner/link on every page of your blog
  4. Do place your voting banner/link towards the top of your site
  5. Do place your voting banner/link in your post footers

Now for some of the Don'ts (things we've seen that aren't effective)

  1. Don't put your voting banner only in your link directory
  2. Don't put your voting banner is a scrolling marquee
  3. Don't just blog about joining TMB and so your voting link is only in one post but nowhere else
  4. Don't forget to use your special voting link (vs http://www.topmommyblogs.com) when you refer to TMB

I'm Being Told I already Have An Account Here And Can't Sign Up Again!

If you have an account already, there's no reason to sign up again. Actually, if you do, you will likely get your blog banned. Duplicate accounts double the amount of work since accounts are manually reviewed. There's no reason to have two! If there was a reset recently, DO NOT CREATE A NEW ACCOUNT! Your old one is just fine and it's just a matter of time before your blog will show up again.

What is a reciprocal link?

A reciprocal link is where you place the topmommyblogs.com link/badge on your blog. When you sign up, you will be given a special voting URL/Banner that you place on your blog. What ever page you place that banner/link on, is your reciprocal link! You will want to list at least one page URL in your account info as your reciprocal link. This gives us an easy way to check that you have a voting banner in place or if you are having problems with it, we know quickly where to look. Since many sites have hundreds of pages, we need a specific and exact page. Please do not use your home page as your reciprocal link unless, when we visit your home page, we can see thetopmommyblogs.com link there! 

I am getting an error!

If you are getting an error and need to report it, please copy and paste the entire error message in an email when you . The more info you give about what you were doing, what links you were adding and the error message you received, the faster we can help you!

I'm Getting A 403 Forbidden Error!

A known cause for this error is adding your full Twitter link into the Twitter Name field and not your Twitter username. If you enter a URL you will get a 403 error. Either only enter your username or leave the field blank. A second known reason for this error happens sometimes when trying to upload a banner from your Wordpress site. Try uploading your banner to TinyPic.Com (to get a new banner URL) and use this link instead. If you still receive this error after leaving the Twitter field blank, .

I am getting errors when I a try to add my banner

Here the common image error message and are a few reasons why your banner may not be accepted:

  1. The supplied banner has a file size larger than we allow..
    This means your graphic is too large (weight not dimension). It may be the right dimensions, but heavy banners will slow down the page loading time so banners need to be under 30,000 bytes. You can try to optimize your graphic or try a different format (gifs are usually the lightest) to bring the file size down but 

  2. This is a 125 x 125 px banner! If your banner doesn't look like this, it won't work here.The supplied banner is either too wide or too tall
    The max size banner you can add is 125 X 125 px (as seen on your right). If your graphic's dimensions are any larger than that, sorry, it won't be accepted. You will have to add a smaller graphic.

  3. The supplied banner is not a valid image.
    There is something wrong your banner URL/link. Either the link isn't ending in jpg, gif or png (the allowed file types), it is broken or for some other reason. You should be able to view your graphic in a browser window (like you are visiting any web page) and see your graphic all by itself. If anything else shows up on the page at all, the  image is loaded in any sort of frame or wrapper, then that is not the direct link to your banner (often the case when you are using a free image host such as tinypic).

Sometimes items from a "wp-content" folder or similar Wordpress directories causes a banner to fail to upload. If your having problems with your Wordpress banner URL, try uploading your banner to TinyPic.Com (to get a new banner URL).

It's important to note that if you are having problems with your banner, creation of or changes to these images needs to be done by you or your graphic designer. If you need a web or graphic designer for help and don't have one, here is a list of some popular web designers. Please do not submit graphics to us to "fix" to fit. If you need further help figuring out how to add your banner to your details (not to your blog, that's out of our scope), for help. You will need to include the error message you received and it is also helpful if you give us the banner link you were trying to add. 

I Don't Have A Banner. Where Can I Get One?

You don't have to add a graphic to participate (it's optional) but it does improve your listing visibility. Here is a list of some possible web designers if you are interested having custom banners made -or- for a $5 fee, we will create and add a 125 x 125 px screenshot to your listing.

Add A 125 x 125 px Screenshot Purchase
For Use On:
Terms (choose to agree)
Your Blog Address:
Your Member Username:
Sample Screenshot:
example screenshot - screenshots will vary

A screenshot is a snapshot of what your site looks like. This is not an advertising banner or include any additional graphics and/or text but will have a 2px brown border as pictured above.

I Changed My Banner. Can You Update It?

Top Mommy Blogs is a free & automated program. Meaning you are given account access to create, update and maintain your account. Please take advantage of this self-serve program and keep in mind that you are responsible for maintaining your account. If you are having problems that aren't covered on this FAQ, than please by all means, for help but if it is to change something in your account, like change your banner, title, description and so on can do so by logging into the member section.

Where can I get the voting links & banners?

You will get your linking code and the changing rank banner code in your welcome email after you have signed up {and confirmed your email if requested}. You can also find more links, banners and your voting code at the banner farm by logging into your account and choosing "Get links and banners" in the drop down menu.  Many blogs only choose specific size linking banners (we don't blame you.. it looks better). If you need a specific size ranking banner, please feel free to for us to consider adding.

What is A Banner URL? How Do I Upload My Banner?

You add your banner by entering the URL (URL = direct link to image online) into the form during sign up or when editing your account. Our program grabs banners that are already online/uploaded and require a Banner URL instead up offering an upload button to upload it from your computer. 

A banner URL (a.k.a banner link) is your banners web address. Just like your blog has a web address, so do all your images and files. So it's the location of your banner where it has been UPLOADED to your server (your blog or 3rd party image host). If you already have your banner added to a web page, an easy way to grab the banner URL is to right click on it and view it's properties (Address/URL). A banner URL will look something like this: http://www.yourwebsite.com/images/125banner.gif

If you don't know your banner URL, are having problems with your banner URL (such as it is causing 403 errors when you try to add it) or don't have one uploaded anywhere, visit a free image host such as TinyPic.Com to upload your banner and get a banner URL. 

To get a temporary Banner URL from Tiny Pic:

    -Visit http://www.tinypic.com (no login/sign up needed)
    -Where it says, "Upload Images & Videos" click the browse button and find your graphic file on your computer
    -Click "Upload Now" then enter the security (captcha) code
    -After you upload your image the Grab Your Code menu, you'll want to copy/paste the "Direct Link For Layouts" link
    -Under where it says "Share This Image" copy the "Direct Link For Layouts" and use this URL in your account details. 

Site Terms & Listing Diagram

The diagram above shows what a basic listing looks like on TopMommyBlogs.Com. Here are some common terms and site functions:

Site Updates: The site updates its stats every 60 minutes. So that means if you just added your blog and have received the minimum number of votes to be listed, you may need to wait an hour or so until the next update.

Site Resets: Several times a year the entire site resets. All members stats are cleared and everyone starts fresh from zero. In addition to being an anti-cheating and clean up method to purge inactive or dead blogs, this will also allow for new blogs a chance to climb the ranks! If you have taken your badge off your site, your blog will not appear again after a reset so this is a great automated way to make sure that only participating blogs are rewarded.

Votes In: This is the number of unique visitors that have clicked on the unique voting link/badge given to each member from the members blog in to TopMommyBlogs.Com.

Visits Out: This is the number of visits out to the members blog from their listing on TopMommyBlogs.Com.

I just signed up for the site, why doesn't my site appear?

The list updates every 60 minutes and at that time will introduce any new sites into the list. So, if you just joined, and you have confirmed your account (via a link in an email that is sent to you immediately after sign up) it may take up an hour or so to appear. Also, you have to have a minimum number of unique hits in to be ranked. Meaning at least 3 (or whatever the minimum vote number is which varies from 1-3) different visitors will need to click on your banner on your blog before your site is visible. This is to improve the traffic exchange for productive sites and to help minimize cheating. That way, a site owner that clicks oh his/her banner 100 times, doesn't automatically climb to #1 superficially! So, you will want to install your ranking code onto your blog, in a high traffic area as quickly as possible to start getting votes/hits in.

I know My Blog Has Sent Votes In. Why don't They show?

The list updates confirmed accounts every 60 minutes (not real time) and at that time will update any new unique votes. You have to have a few unique & legit*  votes to show up on the list again after a reset or if your a new to the list. 'Unique' doesn't mean you can click your banner a hundred times! That will only land you in the cheat record. Each person only gets one vote in a 24 hour period and so as long as your badge is on your blog in a good place where more people can see it, you'll show up after an update or two. You can also use the search box at the top of each ranking page to search for your blog.

If you never confirmed your account, your listing will not appear. if you didn't confirm your account to have it activated.

* A unique visitor is determined by IP address in a 24 hour period. Votes coming in through proxy servers (or any method that attempts to hide info), outdated browsers or browsers that do not accept cookies are not counted.

My blog was listed and now it is gone!

If your blog is missing from the list, visit the home page for the Quick Stats and see if there was a Reset recently. If so, most likely there's nothing wrong with your account or the site, it's just that the stats were "reset" recently. This is something we do for clean up and fairness and you can read more about Resets & Updates here. It may take several hours and possibly several days for your blog to re-appear on the list after a reset so please be patient.

If your able to log into your account, check your stats to see if you have any votes in (look for "Hits In" right under "Hits Since The Last Reset"). If you have at least one vote, you should be listed (unless you never confirmed your account). You may need to use the search box (at the top of each ranking page) to locate your account or wait until the next update (also shown on the Quick Stats) if you just got your first vote.

If you can't log in because your account was suspended, then most likely there was a rule issue that needs to be addressed. If your suspended or locked, please to discuss how to remedy any problems with your account or if you never confirmed your account.

If you can't find your account, and have already tried the password reminder which tells you your account can't be found, then your account may have been removed. Accounts are removed generally for 3 reason:

1) you submitted a site that wasn't a blog. 
2) your blog was not appropriate for TopMommyBlogs.Com.
3) We visited your blog that seems inactive (and double checked the reciprocal link that you gave us in your account details) but couldn't find the voting badge/link on your blogs sidebars or prominent link section. 

Inactive blogs are removed. So if you signed up and never placed the badge on your site or removed it and we visited your blog, we may have removed your account. Inactive members artificially inflates the member count and that's not something we want to do. Our visitors and us as well, are only interested in active members! If this is your case, feel free to sign up again but make sure your interested in participating this time and place your voting badge on your blog right away!

What Happened To The Facebook Link?

Due to server security restrictions, there were issues during sign up that was linked to the Facebook field. A workaround was offered but unfortunately the instructions proved too difficult for new members and so the field was removed. We'll try to get it working again.. someday!

How Do I Contact You?

This FAQ page was created to quickly answer questions that are commonly asked and to give more information about common site functions and error messages. 99% of occurrences of errors or questions are thoroughly discussed and answered above so (please please please) double check these FAQ's & your values before email. While we do our best to review all members sites, we do not endorse any of the individual blog's listed and are not responsible for any of the member's blog content. If you have any issues or questions about a particular member's blog, you will need to contact that member directly. 

If your question is answered above, you may be referred back here (especially after a reset when hundreds of panicked members email asking: "where did my site go," which is answered above.)

If you need help because you encountered an error during sign up or editing your account, please:

  1. Cut & paste the exact error message into an email. The error message will be the text in red and not the words "There Was An Error." 
  2. If you are having a URL problem or image problem, include the URL/link or image you were using as well
  3. Include your member name & blog link

We Tweet News!! You don't have to be a Twitter member to check out our @TopMommyBlogs Twitter feed for news. 

If you have any additional questions that are not answered above, . Please note that around the time of a site reset (see recent/next reset dates here) "Where Did My Blog Go," emails will not be responded to. There are simply too many members who ask this question around reset times and this is clearly explained above.

 

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